Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Study Reports Anal Sex on Rise Among Teens

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Carry -- a Colorado college student who had been in a steady relationship for months -- was recently cajoled by her boyfriend into some sexual experimentation.

He wanted to try anal sex, and even though the 20-year-old said she was "OK with the idea," she nervously downed several drinks before their lovemaking began.

Within 15 seconds, Carry -- not her real name -- said she was "crying and asking him to stop."

They never did it again. But experts say that as social mores ease, more young heterosexuals are engaging in anal sex, a behavior once rarely mentioned in polite circles. And the experimentation, they worry, may be linked to the current increase in sexually transmitted diseases.

Recently, researchers at the Bradley Hasbro Children's Research Center in Rhode Island suggested that anal sex is on the rise among teens and young adults, particularly those who have unprotected vaginal sex.

Experts say girls and young women like Carry are often persuaded to try such sexual behavior for the wrong reasons -- to please a partner, to have sex without the risk of pregnancy or to preserve their virginity. But many don't understand the health consequences.

"It really is shocking how many myths young people have about anal sex," said Judy Kuriansky, a Columbia University professor and author of "Sexuality Education: Past Present and Future."

"They don't think you can get a disease from it because you're not having intercourse," she told ABCNews.com. "They can actually recite by rote how you get AIDS, but it doesn't transfer to their personal behavior."

The study included a comprehensive questionnaire about adolescent sexual and other risk behaviors. The participants self-reported their answers, which scientists say can skew the results in this type of study. To compensate, researchers used audio computer-assisted self -interview technology, allowing participants to enter their responses directly into a computer, rather than having to report to an interviewer.

"Given the subject matter, it is likely that the numbers reported may actually be an underestimate of the prevalence of these behaviors," said Celia Lescano of Brown University, the Bradley Hasbro study's lead author.

More than one-third of new HIV infections in the United States occur among people between the ages of 13 and 29 and can be attributed to the mind-set among youth that they are not at risk of contracting the virus, according to the Kaiser Foundation.

Source: abcnews.go.com

Friday, July 4, 2008

Nelly Furtado - I'm like a Bird

Nelly Kim Furtado (born December 2, 1978) is a Canadian singer-songwriter, record producer, actress and instrumentalist, who also holds a Portuguese citizenship.
Furtado came to fame in 2000 with the release of her debut album Whoa, Nelly!, which featured her breakthrough Grammy Award-winning single "I'm like a Bird". After becoming a mother and releasing the less commercially successful Folklore (2003), she returned to prominence in 2006 with the release of Loose and its hit singles "Promiscuous", "Maneater", "Say It Right", and "All Good Things (Come to an End)". Furtado is known for experimenting with different instruments, sounds, genres, vocal styles and languages. This diversity has been influenced by her wide-ranging musical taste and her interest in different cultures.

"I'm Like A Bird" is a song written by Canadian singer Nelly Furtado, and produced by Gerald Eaton and Brian West for her first album Whoa, Nelly! (2000). It was one of the year's critically acclaimed songs and widely considered as Furtado's signature song. Nelly Furtado said that "I'm like a Bird" is her favourite song: "There's a simplicity about it that I love", she explained. "It's my freedom song." It was one of the most successful singles of 2001, reaching number one in Canada and Brazil, number two in Australia and New Zealand, number five in the UK, and number nine in the U.S. It peaked at 9 on Billboard's Hot 100 Airplay, It won a 2001 Juno Award for "Single of the Year" and a 2002 Grammy for "Best Female Pop Vocal Performance". She performed an arrangement of the song at the Grammys featuring accompaniment by virtuoso guitarist Steve Vai.
The song was covered by the band Element 101, whose version appears on the compilation album Punk Goes Pop (2002). Furtado said of the song, "I've heard it sung at karaoke or by cover bands and it was awesome — I was like, wow, I've got one of those songs. Somebody once called it a "hairbrush song", one that girls and guys sing in front of the mirror with their hairbrush. I just think I'm lucky I have it — it's paying the bills!".

The music video for "I'm Like A Bird" was directed by Francis Lawrence.
The video begins in the sky where the camera slowly pans down onto Nelly Furtado, who is lying in the grass. It then shows her singing on the tree stem in mid-air. In the chorus she gets up and she starts singing to the camera while birds are flying around her. The second verse shows her sitting in mid-air in a forest, while singing to the camera. The chorus consists of flashes of Nelly Furtado singing in mid-air, again, while leaning on the tree stem. At the bridge she is singing to a bug while her eyes are changing color. The conclusion of the video shows her on a branch and she falls backwards into a mosh-pit of people as she sings the lines of the song.

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Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Sugar plum Valentino

Alessandra Facchinetti'Viva Italia," said Giorgio Armani, punching the air in front of a window overlooking the Place Vendôme in support of Alessandra Facchinetti as the young designer showed her first Valentino couture collection since the founder retired.

In the front row sat the starlet Camilla Belle in a fluffy white tulle dress, her movie credits in "When a Stranger Calls" an appropriate title for this dramatic generational changing of the guard.
Yet as the models stepped out delicately in the fairy-like dresses, with light layers creating sculptural ovoid shapes, the collection did not seem that of an outsider, but of a designer loyal to everything Valentino has stood for - though from an ultra-feminine point of view. That meant there was a meringue-sweet lightness about the dresses, with their boulle skirts, crystal embroidery and fluffy ruffs, which the designer said before the show had been inspired by the jabots of Van Dyck's paintings.
The overall effect was fresh and pretty but with nothing to challenge Valentino's classic concept that fashion should be a gift to women, wrapping them in a pretty parcel of finery.Alessandra Facchinetti
For a first effort at couture, the show was an exercise less in cut than in original embellishment, from the origami effects to woolen bobbles on a long chartreuse gown to the metallic wheels that appeared on shoes or as jewelry. The house is famous for ruffles and frills, but Facchinetti could have reduced the sugar quotient - not least when it came as undulating waves of fabric rising up the back of a skirt.
It seems strange that someone so young should not take a more feminist point of view about fashion for the fast-paced modern woman, who does not go out only for cocktails or balls where standing up is essential in order not to crush a chicken-feather rear.
Facchinetti did build her silhouette on architecture, not least the opening outfit of jacket and skirt sculpted with stiffened silk. Other square-cut pieces, like a turquoise coat, was as rich as a cream cake with embroidery.
But the designer is allowed to express her sugar-plum fairy fantasy of femininity. And it was good to see the synergy between her and the long-serving couture hands at Valentino.
From the invitation printed on tissue paper to the airy lightness of the show, Facchinetti proved that she is more than a featherweight designer. And for her big challenge - the Valentino red dress - she had a winner: a draped chiffon dress, its hot color bleeding over shell-like tulle tufts, to make a strong ending.

Source: iht.com

French Colombian politician Ingrid Betancourt rescued from FARC by Colombian troops.

Ingrid BetancourtOn July 2, 2008, Ingrid Betancourt was rescued in the Guaviare region of Colombia by Colombian security forces in Operation "Jaque", which included inflitrated military men, along with fourteen other hostages, including three citizens of the United States. Her top campaign staffer was previously released in 2007.

Several Colombian political figures continued to attempt to visit the demilitarized zone (DMZ) even as the talks ended. Most candidates for political office that intended to do so backed off when authorities warned them of the danger. Ingrid Betancourt, as another one of these candidates, insisted to be taken to the former DMZ by a military aircraft. President Pastrana and other officials turned down this petition arguing that neither they, nor the Colombian Army, could guarantee her safety during the turmoil that would follow the retaking of the DMZ. Additionally, Betancourt was running for president in the 2002 elections; aiding her in such a request meant that the government was rendering its resources to Betancourt's private political interests. Agreeing to Betancourt's request would also mean that the government was either backing a candidate for the presidential elections or that it then had to assist every single candidate in their demands of using official and military resources for their private interests.
When denied transport aboard this military helicopter that was heading to the zone, she decided to head into the DMZ via ground transport, together with Clara Rojas, her campaign manager who was later named running-mate for the 2002 election, and a handful of political aides. On February 23, 2002, she was stopped at the last military checkpoint before going into the former DMZ. Military officers insisted that Betancourt and her party not continue in their effort to reach San Vicente del Caguan, the village used for the peace talks. San Vicente's mayor was the only Oxygeno elected official in the entire country by then. Intense fighting was taking place inside the DMZ and the security situation was rapidly deteriorating. Betancourt dismissed their warnings and she continued her journey. According to her kidnapper, the later captured Nolberto Uni Vega, Betancourt ended up at a FARC checkpoint where she was captured. Her kidnap was never planned beforehand, said the rebel. Ingrid still appeared on the ballot for the presidential elections; her husband promised to continue her campaign. In the end, she achieved less than 1% of the votes.
Betancourt was born in Bogotá. Of Italian ancestry, her mother, Yolanda Pulecio, was a former Miss Colombia who later served in Congress representing the poor southern neighborhoods of Bogotá. Her father, Gabriel Betancourt, was minister for the General Gustavo Rojas Pinilla dictatorship (1953-1957), the assistant director of the United Nations Educational, Scientific, and Cultural Organization, Unesco ambassador to the embassy in Paris, and head of the education commission of the Alliance for Progress in Washington, D.C. under John F. Kennedy. The Betancourts divorced in 1975, with Betancourt's father being granted custody of his daughters.
As children, Betancourt and her elder sister, Astrid, were largely brought up in Paris, in an apartment on Avenue Foch which she described in her memoirs as "decorated with great taste: signed eighteenth-century furniture, paintings by old masters—I remember in particular Dürer's St. Jerome, which frightened us at night—Chinese bibelots, carpets, a hanging garden." Her parents, she stated, were popular hosts who threw weekly parties for "two or three hundred people." Among the family's close friends were Gabriel García Marquez and Fernando Botero.
After attending private school in France, a boarding school in England as well as the Liceo Francés in Bogota, she attended the Institut d'Études Politiques de Paris (commonly known as Sciences-Po).
After graduating, she married fellow student Fabrice Delloye in 1983, and they had two children, Mélanie (born 1985) and Lorenzo. Through this marriage she became a French citizen. Her husband served in the French diplomatic corps, and the couple lived in multiple countries, including New Zealand and the Seychelles. During the 1980s, she briefly lived in Quito, Ecuador, where she worked as an aerobics instructor.
In the mid 1990s, Betancourt and Delloye divorced, and she married Colombian advertising executive, Juan Carlos Lecompte.
Her former husband and children moved to New Zealand due to death threats stemming from her political activities.

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Big Brother 10

Big Brother 10Big Brother 10 is the upcoming tenth season of the American reality television series Big Brother that will premiere July 13, 2008 on the CBS television network. The show will air three times a week; Sundays at 8 p.m. (ET/PT), Tuesdays at 9 p.m. (ET/PT), and Wednesdays at 8 p.m (live ET/delayed PT). Julie Chen will return as host, and Allison Grodner and Rich Meehan are the executive producers. The show is produced by Endemol USA and Allison Grodner Productions. Only one season of Big Brother was intended to air during 2008 but due to the 2007-2008 Writers Guild of America strike, CBS announced Big Brother 9 for the regular television season and Big Brother 10 for the summer of 2008.
Big Brother 3Casting for Big Brother 10 began on February 25, 2008. Applications were due on April 25, 2008 and video tape submissions were due on April 4, 2008. During May 2008 interviews for the 40 semi-finalists were held with the finalists being chosen on May 21, 2008. Casting calls were held in various cities across the country including Los Angeles, CA, Charleston, SC, Louisville, KY, Minneapolis, MN, Pittsburgh, PA and Phoenix, AZ.Big Brother 8 winner Dick Donato announced on House Calls that Big Brother 10 will feature a wider range of HouseGuests. E4 will not air Big Brother 10 as they did with Big Brother 9 due to conflicts with the ninth edition of the British version.
During an advertisement that aired on CBS it was revealed that 13 HouseGuests would be entering the House. This is the first time since Big Brother 4 that 13 HouseGuests will live in the House and the first time that there has been a decrease of HouseGuests over a previous season. A live audience will also be present during the live eviction episodes on Wednesdays. This is the first time since Big Brother 1 that an audience has been present for the live weekly eviction shows.
On April 14, 2008 CBS announced Big Brother 10 would return on July 13, 2008, with episodes airing on Sundays, Tuesdays and Wednesdays. During the season finale of Big Brother: After Dark on April 27, 2008 it was confirmed that the companion show would return for Big Brother 10.


Thursday, June 19, 2008

Noel Clarke interview

In 2006 actor Noel Clarke wrote and starred in Kidulthood, British film about the life of several fifteen-year-olds in the deprived Ladbroke Grove/Latimer Road area of Inner West London.Now two years later Clarke is back with the sequel Adulthood which sees him write, star and take on directorial duties.

Adulthood catches up with Sam upon his release from jail, having served 6 years for the manslaughter of rival Trife. The film follows his journey over 24 hours as he is forced to confront the people he has hurt, and see first-hand the effects of his actions all those years ago. Some have moved on, others are stuck with the repercussions of that night, but one thing’s for certain - everyone has been forced to grow up. As Sam struggles to deal with his guilt and adjust to the outside world, he also has to deal with those seeking revenge for Trife’s death. As he is pursued through the streets of West London, he wonders if a new cycle of violence has started and if there is any way to bring an end to it as things start to escalate beyond his control.

How did the idea come about to make a sequel to Kidulthood?

The idea to make the sequel actually came about by accident really. The actress Red Madrell who plays Alisa in both Kidulthood and Adulthood was out in West London, she had just watched Kidulthood and I think she was getting mobbed by a load of kids and they were asking her what happens to the character Trife and this that and she got a little excited and said you’ll have to wait and find out in the sequel. Someone in the crowd was a friend of mine and they called me and it made me laugh. The next morning I had breakfast with the producer George Isaac and I told him the story and he laughed too but whilst we were laughing I said, ‘Wouldn’t it be funny if this happened’, then he said ‘wouldn’t it be funny if this happened’. So we started throwing ideas back and forth and I went home and wrote the first draft in about seven days.

How did you find directing your first feature film?

I enjoyed directing, I think that in terms of career longevity you have to have more than one string to your bow, so for me being able to write, act and direct, to do all three is something that I want to continue doing - it’s something I really enjoy. Directing for the first time was definitely a challenge and tiring at times. It was a steep learning curve and if you’re willing to do stuff and go with it, then it pays off.

Do you have a long term relationship with Damian and George the producers?

I’m not married to them! But yeah Damian and George are great guys. They produced Kidulthood and after I wrote Adulthood, the logical place and the only place I’d go was with the two guys who helped get the first film off the ground. As far as I’m concerned, they are my producers. Any script I write, they see first.

What do you think the selling points of the film are? Are you part of that attraction?

I think it has a core audience and a wider audience who were attracted to it on DVD as well. I think the film speaks for itself. The excitement we’ve built is because of the first movie not just because I’m in it. It could be a whole bunch of new kids and if it was still connected to the Kidulthood name or ‘brand’ people would still go and see it. It just happens to be a follow-on from the first one. I don’t think I as a name will sell it, I think it will sell based on its own merits.

What attracted audiences to the first film?

In the top fifty British films of 2006 if you look at the amount of money made per screen average, Kidulthood is number nine out of fifty. That’s because the audience related to it and people saw that it was authentic and wasn’t written by people pretending to know about situations but it was written by somebody who was at least around certain situations and could relate to the young people. That’s why people flocked to see it even though it was on a limited run. Then when it came out on DVD it lit a fire under that generation and even more people watched it. This is why the Adulthood promo was only on YouTube for about five days and it had 27,000 hits because people are looking forward to the film. There’s a buzz about it.

Can you talk about the storyline in Adulthood?

The story is pretty simple. Sam comes out of prison for the manslaughter of Trife and has to deal with the consequences of that night and realises that it’s not just about how it affects him, but how his actions have affected everybody else. Then he hears that people want to hurt him or his family, so he sets out to find who they are and all the while, he’s being hunted by a new bunch of boys.

How did you come to cast the film?

The casting process was pretty straightforward. We had some cast from the previous movie, but in terms of the new actors it was open castings. We wanted new fresh talent, so we also asked agents to send us their newest, freshest talent who hadn’t had many jobs yet. We got a great young guy called Jacob Anderson who plays Omen, he’s a fabulous actor and has just been working non-stop since he did our film. I think he’s going to do good things. We also got an actress called Scarlett Alice Johnson who worked a few years ago in a popular, long-running TV show and has been doing theatre for a while and we gave her the opportunity to play the lead girl in this movie. She is just fantastic, truly exceptional. You couldn’t ask for a better actress. I was told to see a lot of ‘named’ actresses and I did. I saw a lot who I’d been asked to see and a lot of them were really good, but Scarlett was just as good and she could also do what we needed her to do in terms of the accent and things.

Can you talk about the actor Adam Deacon who plays Jay in Kidulthood and Adulthood and how you got that performance out of him?

Adam Deacon is the loveliest man you will ever meet and I know that he’ll be upset with me for saying that because he likes everybody to think that he is some gangster, but he is a nice little guy! Adam has grown up in areas much like where I’ve grown up and you have the ability to become what people see as quite vicious or a monster, that doesn’t mean that you are. It’s just the ability to translate it onto the screen, to make Jay this guy that you love but then hate. Jay is vile but some part of you can’t help but like him because there is something about him. This film gives a lot more depth to his character and shows why he feels the way he does.

Do you know someone like your character Sam?

I knew various people like Sam when I was growing up. He was definitely based on one guy who I knew at school, but I don’t know people like that now, because I move in different circles. You just take that from the past and make it what it is. In this film he’s not so much based on that person, that was more in Kidulthood. This film takes the characters on a new journey and sees where they get to.

Do you think it was getting into acting that stopped you from becoming somebody like Sam?

I don’t think getting into acting stopped me from doing that because I didn’t get into acting until I was twenty-three, so that was quite late. By that point I had already been to university and was a personal trainer, gym instructor and life guard. But from a young age I was making choices in life, not necessarily knowing what I wanted to do, because sometimes you don’t know. Deep down since I was about five years of age I always wanted to act, but the practicality of going to drama school or affording stuff like that or even knowing where to go wasn’t practical for me. I don’t think I would have ever have become the sort of boy that Sam is because I was always making choices not to do things. There were people in my flats where I grew up who are now in jail or are now dead. For me it was just a case of making a choice. I wasn’t a coward, I wasn’t somebody who wouldn’t defend my friends but when there’s the choice of doing things for the sake of doing them, I was one of those people who could say, I don’t want to do this. I was never influenced by others.

How did you choose the London locations for Adulthood?

The locations for this film were pretty similar to the first one. The reason I chose them for the first film was because that was the area of West London I grew up in - that was the area I knew. The little record shop, the corner shop across the road, Ladbroke Grove, Latimer Road Station, those were all places I knew, so when I was writing the script, I was writing it about places I knew. Also because every film I had seen about my area might as well have had polo players riding down the street on horses because it’s all Bridget Jones-meets-Four Weddings-meets-Notting Hill with old Granty in them. I lived there, right there, and yet you never get to see where I lived. The main thing for me in Kidulthood and this one was to show how the two cultures mix. Like when the girls go round to get drugs from the posh guys in the first film. I wanted to show that the whole area is a real melting pot - there are so many different cultures and people from different walks of life. Portabello Road was just there on my doorstep, so for me, I wanted to show it as I know it. There was talk about doing the first film in South London, but I said no, we’re not doing it in South London, not because I dislike it, but for the simple fact that I don’t know it, so how can I write about an area that I didn’t grow up in.

In this one you’ve got posh people buying drugs rather than selling them?

People watching this movie are bound to say, ‘what you are trying to say?’ I’m not trying to say anything. You raise questions in films and it’s up to other people to answer them. Characters like Jay are the scourge of society, they rob people, they sell drugs and they are vicious, but who keeps them in business? who is buying the drugs? If he could afford to buy drugs, he wouldn’t have to sell them. There are little things in there that are making points. Some things I’ve done on purpose, not just because they are funny.

What was the hardest scene to shoot?

The last fight scene with Sam and Jay because we had to be off the estate by 11pm because you aren’t allowed to shoot at night on the estate. So, the night shoot was from the time it got dark at around 4.00pm to whenever we finished. We only had two days to shoot it. We didn’t get it all in so had to go back for a third day. That costs money. It was raining on one of the days, so we had to wet down the floor for the other days. We were rolling around on the floor so our costumes were wet and we were putting on and taking off pads to do stunts. The temperature was around minus four degrees. It was really difficult. I think Adam and I did a good job. Once we are off the ground on our feet in the last scene, the performances are good that’s the main part of the scene. Fight scenes can be messy - I can deal with that, but as long as we have the performances, then I’m happy.

Did you have a stunt man to choreograph the fights?

Yes we did for most of the fight stuff, he is a great guy. But there were times where we fell out on that last scene! There’s a moment when I fall on the floor and they didn’t want me to do it, because the pads I had weren’t enough protection and we couldn’t have a mat there because people were going to see it. They were really annoyed that I did it and said ‘You’re putting everything in danger’. But it’s my film and the only person I’m putting in danger is myself and if I’m willing to do that then so be it. I didn’t want any stunt doubles, and that particular moment was during the extra day and we had to get off this estate. The crew had worked over time and everyone was tired, so I just did it. He wasn’t happy, rightly so because his job is to protect us all and my job is to get the film made, so I fell on the ground!

Which scene was the most fun to film?

Well, I don’t know whether I should be saying this, but I had a scene with Scarlett in the bedroom, that was quite fun to do, she is a beautiful girl, I’ll say no more!

Is the point of the film that they find redemption?

The point of this film is that Sam finds redemption, not because he is looking for it, he doesn’t come out of jail saying, ‘Oh I’m sorry for what I did, let me find people and apologize. He has to learn that things have affected other people and he can’t just come out of jail and say ‘I just want a peaceful time, I’ve serve my time and that’s it. That’s not it, you’ve got a young girl without a dad, friends without a friend, a girl without a boyfriend, mothers without sons and he needs to learn how his actions affected other people. Not only does he need to learn, but to deal with it and face the facts. When they come after him and want to keep the cycle of violence going, being the worst person in the first film, he has to be the person to say, ‘I appreciate that you’re after me and we could keep this going for years, but I’m actually just going to go, I don’t want anything to do with this and I’m going to walk away’. I think a lot of the problem with people these days is that no one is willing to walk away. It’s not necessarily being a coward, it’s the fact that if I hurt you, you might go get your friends and hurt me, and if you hurt me I’ll go and get my friends and hurt you and at some point, someone has to say, you know what, forget this. Otherwise at some point, one of us is going to end up dead. The key is that it all comes down to choices. The film is about choices. Henry makes a choice early on when Dabs says we’ve got to go get this guy Henry says, ‘Are you crazy? I don’t want to get this guy’, and he suffers for it. Moony makes a choice when Jay says ‘forget your studies, let's go get Sam. Moony makes that choice. Lexi makes her choices. For me, this whole film is about choices, it’s about how every single choice you make, especially in that sort of world, is going to affect what happens to you and to other people.

Do you feel that some young black teenagers might take the wrong message?

First, I don’t consider myself a black filmmaker, I’m just a filmmaker. I can’t hide the fact that I’m black. But if we keep saying, ‘we are black filmmakers’ then people will keep saying, ‘those black guys’. Do I feel a responsibility? I think that there are always people who will misinterpret stuff and there are also mindless people who just want to take the wrong message from things. I’m not here to deliver messages, I’m not here to be a role model, if people want to look at me like that, they can. I’m not going to proclaim myself as a role model. The message in the first film for me was quite clear, you can’t behave in the way the boys behaved and expect to just swan off at the end of it. If you behave badly, this could happen to you, that’s what happened to Trife. The message for me in this one is clear; you can’t do stuff and not take the consequences. There are always going to be people that are going to take the bad out of that. What can you do about that? My job is raise questions, I’m not here to answer them, I’m not a politician, I’m not here to find solutions. The best films make you think, the best films show you situations. In terms of young kids in the streets that look at us, there hasn’t been a sway in my opinion. There just isn’t enough for young people to do, they need more to do. Things get closed down. There was an initiative in West London called YCTV it was a training centre for young people to act, write, and direct and they’ve shut it down. I know a director from there, who’s now directing films, why would you shut that down? Now those kids have nothing to do. Stuff like that bugs me. But also young people need to take stock of themselves as well, because like I said, they have a choice. They say 'What do any of these people in the film industry know about me? I grew up on council estate with a single mother, went to a rough school and lived in a rough area, what do they know?' But I grew up just like that and I’m making films, I don’t want anybody using the excuse of their upbringing or where they grew up any more. If you can’t use that excuse what are you going to do? You’re going to have to take stock. So you’re going to have to fix up or look bad. I’m supposed to be a statistic - single parent family, council estate, but now I’m making films, so you can’t say I don’t know, because I do know.

What do you want the audience to say when they come out from seeing Adulthood?

I want them to come and out and think that they just saw a good British film. I want them to feel that they’ve seen one of the best British films in a long time. This is one of the first sequels to an independent British film that they are going to see and maybe the last. You don’t get sequels to dramas in this country, you barely get sequels unless they are big budget studio films and you definitely don’t get sequels that are about ‘urban’ kids. So, this film, whether they realise it or not and whether they want to accept it or not, it is history in the making and we made it happen. I hope it will open up doors for other people to make films. At the same time, what I’m saying with this film as with Kidulthood, is that I want people to change their lives. It’s time to move on, to stop this thuggery and this street culture. I’m going to write different things now. It’s about progression and taking audiences into new areas.



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Right swimsuit for your figure

Add volume to a small bust with the right bikini top!

If we do not have the perfect measures when it comes to our figure and we are not among the few lucky owners of a trim, fit and cellulite-free body, then we may find it quite difficult to come across the perfect swimsuit for our holidays spent on the seaside or on the hot, enticing beaches on the ocean's shore. Some may go as far as to feel really embarrassed about getting their clothes off in public and running around or lying on a chaise-longue with only a skim bikini and a top to cover their essential body parts. However, as unhappy as we may be about our silhouette (which I advise you not to, because confidence and high self-esteem can go a long way, as you probably know!) we still enjoy reveling in the sun rays that caress our bodies and swimming in the warm waters of the sea or ocean in order to achieve complete relaxation. And the question comes naturally: what needs to be done under such circumstances? Should we learn to accept the way we look (though trying our best to be more beautiful by sticking to a healthy lifestyle!), take proud in it and learn how to dress ourselves so as to make the best of our physical appearance, or should we just join the quitters and cowards' group and stay tiffish indoors instead of living life to the max and feeling great in a vacation on the sea or ocean shore? I opt for the former one and I dare you to do the same! It is not as hard as it may seem, all you have to do is accept who you are and how you look... and take into consideration the following tips and tricks whenever going shopping for a swimsuit!

If you have a small bust, have no worry, there are other thousands of women just like you out there who never take this as a flaw and this is exactly what you should do. But at the same time try to make it look bigger by choosing the right clothes, in this case bikini tops. First and foremost, I have to highly recommend you to give a very wide berth to all such pieces that come either monochromatic and in too dark hues (black, navy-blue etc.), or tube and bandeau-style and that usually work by cutting on the curves. On the other hand, anything that can add wideness to your bosom and at the same time make it plumper works great. This is why you should definitely go for neon-colors (which, by the way, are so IN at the moment!) such as bright, vivid yellow, pink etc. and also for anything that comes in a sophisticated or funny pattern so as to give intricacy to the whole 'outfit'. Look for hip and colorful imprints with flowers, ribbons, butterflies, seashells and also polka dots (another trend that goes very strong now) or whatever else you like, just let your imagination free and bear in mind that the more playful it is, the better you will look. Ruffles, embellishments and any other type of details on the top part are also a brilliant choice, as they add volume to your bosom. However, avoid too wide stripes and, most of all, horizontal ones, as these may make you even more small-chested.

In terms of cut, you should know that a slightly deep cleavage will help you look your best. Therefore, show some skin with a sweetheart, scoop or V-neck. Shaped cups on a top also help create curves and roundness, this is why you should also consider a triangle swimsuit bra, for instance. Bikini tops with subtle underwire have been especially designed for not too curvy bosoms, as they will put forth your assets and make them look 'generous' with their push-up effect. However, make sure the bikini top is not too heavily padded or you may leave the wrong impression that you have stuffed it.

As you may have probably noticed, we have only talked bikini tops up to now, consequently two-piece swimsuits, and we have forgotten about those that come in one-piece. Our advice is that you should also forget about them if you have a small bosom or an overall boyish figure, because these will by no means flatter your body shape and 'assets'. Be especially careful to say a big 'No!' to classic tank swimsuits that considerably diminish curves.

How to dress a large bosom when going to the beach.

If you have a generous cleavage, then you must consider yourself very lucky for being endowed with what one would call in an informal language 'delicious melons' or whatever round and 'curvy' fruits may be out there. And it is only natural in this case to be more than willing to accentuate your bosom and let the others benefit from the amazing view such 'beauties' can offer... but this should be done in a subtle manner, because you would not want to pass for someone who desperately seeks attention. This is why you should completely stick to the two golden rules according to which 'less is more' and 'the fitted size suits you best'. Therefore, do not try to flaunt that curvy boobs by flashing too much flesh when going swimming, because their enticing roundness is able to speak for itself quite fine. Also, be careful to never choose a size that is too small or too large for your bikini top or tank, as you do not want your breasts either to look too squeezed, or 'hang' too loose.

A bikini top that offers full support to your bust is crucial when choosing a swimsuit to flatter your figure. This is why you should know that a flimsy, skimpy one or plunging necklines are not your best friends and instead, the right thing to do is go for a bikini top that offers you full support, just like the bras you wear daily. Full cups and slight underwire tops work great for you. You can go either for strings or for a halter neck, however you must be sure that they are solid enough to keep your 'beauties' in check. Wide strings and halters look really amazing on large-busted women and you should try it, too. Tankini tops with underwire are also a highly-recommended option, especially for plus size women. If tank swimsuits are not the right choice for a small-busted woman, they are definitely suited for a large-bosomed one, especially if she has an hourglass figure. Furthermore, do not forget about high-cut, straight across tops that are mainly designed for ladies who want to cover a full upper part.

In terms of color, you can go with each and every hue you like, but bear in mind that neon ones are for the slimmer of us, while those dark and solid are for the plumper of us. All types of patterns work great on the bikini top of a woman with a generous cleavage by subtly drawing the attention towards her assets. However, if you think that your breasts are too large and you want to play them down and make them look smaller, you should not choose too intricate patterns, too vivid colors and too many details and embellishments for the bikini top. And if the situation is the other way round, namely if you want to flaunt your curvy chest, then do all these things and do not forget about the 'full support' rule.

Usually, large-busted women have an hourglass or apple silhouette. If you are included in the former category, then you can pair with your swim top almost any type of bikini, this being also dependent on how fit your tummy and tushie are. But if you are large on the whole upper part, like in the case of apple figures, then you should consider a bright, embellished, intricate patterned bikini to balance a wider top and draw attention towards your legs.

The right pieces to reduce broad shoulders and make you look amazing.

We have already seen what type of swimwear you should put on when going to the beach, whether you are small-busted or large bosomed. But what happens in both cases if you have some broad shoulders? Don't you dare say you can never look good in a swimsuit, as this would be just a sheer, even if involuntary lie. You can look gorgeous, all you have to do is pick up the right cut, model and pattern to balance your figure and put emphasis on the best-looking parts of your body. In order to do that, when going shopping for a swimsuit just make sure you take into account the following tips and tricks that are definitely going to keep you from sporting a V-shape silhouette.

First and foremost, given the fact that your shoulders are already big enough, you should not wear spaghetti straps and you must by all means give a wide berth to spaghetti halter tops and front bandeau, as these would seem even more delicate and fine against the impressive 'background' of your shoulders. On the other hand, you should not live under the wrong impression that all types of halter straps are forbidden, because the wide ones would do a great job in narrowing this problem area of your body. Square or asymmetrical neck is also a very inspired pick, since this is as able to play down your shoulders as a V halter neck, while a plunging neckline would work just the other way around, by putting into focus exactly the body region you want to draw attention from.

No matter if you are small or large chested, you should reveal those 'beauties' rather than covering and hiding them into your bra, because this is the smartest way to make a shift of attention from your shoulders towards your cleavage. This is why padded and underwire bikini or tankini tops would work just perfectly for you.

In terms of color, the bikini or tankini top can bear almost any hue and pattern or print, as long as you make sure that you are not putting only your upper body part in the limelight and the lower part gets enough attention, also. Solid tops work great with printed, bright-colored bikini because this helps give the right proportion to the whole body and make you look your best. And because the rule of balancing your figure is the most important when it comes to picking your outfits, including swimwear, you should never sport an itsy-bisty-tiny bikini or your shoulders will look even broader and we do not want this to happen. The most suited alternative in this case is a mid-rise bikini in bright, bold colors and playful, hip patterns and prints. Embellishments and detailing of any kind are also more than welcome in the lower part of your body, but you should think twice before applying these to your bra.

All in all, you must take pride in your figure and shed light on the right 'spots'. You will glow and rivet on the beach and the others will definitely notice how great you look!

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

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Monday, June 16, 2008

Cameo Mischief Bra & Panty Set

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